Women’s Psychology and Society’s Guide to Understanding Women

“Woman psychology” refers to the emotions, thoughts and behaviors of women. Society chooses feelings, thoughts and behaviors for both men and women within certain patterns. Expectations that frame these patterns are displayed in women and men as very different forms and characteristics.

Society expects men to be assertive in every situation and never to remain in the background. Far from expecting her to be assertive, she defends the fact that she should be timid. Even in situations that require assertiveness, she believes that men should have a say by referring the situations to their wives.

For example; It is not welcome for the man to remain passive and the woman to bargain during a deal. It is believed that the man should do the bargain and the woman is expected to remain passive as much as possible. In addition to being interesting, these expectations are more interesting that the patterns of feelings, thoughts and behaviors determined by societies for women and men are widely accepted. As we discussed in the example of bargaining, in some cases, women can gladly accept without question that it is appropriate for women to remain in the background.

However, what makes a woman a woman is her feelings, thoughts and humanity. It is expected that the person who is always understanding, constructive, feeling and meeting the needs of his wife and children by realizing it is a woman. In the discussions between the spouses, it is expected that the managing and the underlying party is the woman. It rejects women who defend the rights of society, try to justify them, and state that they do not have to manage.

When male and female psychology is compared, it is seen that while male psychology is based on comfortable and free foundations, women are bound by compulsory responsibilities.

When it comes to deceit and infidelity, it is understood that the man is deceitful and unfaithful. Even the possibility of abducting the woman is not considered. Despite the fact that women can deceive, the society wants to believe in the thought “Woman doesn’t do”. However, there is a possibility that a woman may break from the right path by making the same mistake. The role assigned to women in honor is a result of male domination.

With the effect of this society, “woman psychology” is formed with the limitations, obligations, exploitation of emotions, denial of thought and behavior patterns.

Women’s psychology operates within the framework of patterns imposed on him, such as “I must think of my man, I must feel everything in advance and take precautions, I must be in the second place, I must be obedient, I must be loyal, my priority must be my children, it is selfish that I waste time”. Among the patterns determined by the society, he begins to have difficulties during the period when he cannot find support from his wife.

 “Am I doing myself unfair?” He starts looking for the answer to his question. In return for what he has done, he thinks about what his wife did not do, the attitudes she displayed and the support she could not find. In addition to the negative attitude of the man, his careless attitude makes the woman realize that he is neglected and experiencing emotional disconnection. Thus, the woman begins to think from different angles based on her observations.

While I dedicate myself to my wife and children with so much sacrifice, my husband only provides for the living of the house. He starts saying that he never spares me and my children, doesn’t care about my thoughts and ideas. The woman realizes the injustice between the behavior patterns society chooses towards women and men and realizes that she does not want to maintain these patterns.

Understanding this, of course, causes great tremors in the psychology of the woman and leads to different uncertainties. Thus, he finds himself in an explosion of anger that he cannot control. He exhibits the anger and rebellion he does not want to see and can never endure in women, by acting against the values ​​that society places on women. Subsequently, whenever this anger is incompatible with understanding, it brings with it more negative emotions and seriously causes the woman to break away from her husband. If the man does not have the effort and effort to correct the mistakes in these events, the emotional bond that cannot be established between them shows a complete break. And separations become inevitable.

Women’s psychology becomes stronger in situations where it responds to the compassion, understanding, compassion it shows, and its resilient approach to difficult situations. With this power he provides, he can only digest the psychology that society imposes on women. Otherwise, when the woman is not felt in the face of what she feels, when she is not rested despite resting, she starts to move away by taking herself under the control mechanism.

In addition to the general evaluations, we can also evaluate some women in terms of being more incomprehensible than other women. Likewise, some men may not be making enough effort, despite the obvious expectations and needs of their partner.

As a result of the evaluations, we can argue that the woman should be understandable, the man should realize that it is necessary to make enough effort to understand, and the feeling of empathy should be included by moving away from mutual prejudices.

Men have the habit of putting their logic into action in every situation, regardless of the event and subject. They always look at events with logic arguments such as “a way out, resolved, we look for a solution.” However, in order to understand women, they need to develop emotionally as well as logic. “I already know the feelings. The man who says “I know when my wife got upset when she got angry” can not empathize with her husband even though she names the feelings she sees in her husband correctly. It cannot feel it. It is a simple task to name feelings and say “My wife is upset now” or “My partner is angry.” The difficult thing is to notice when the partner is feeling negative, to feel this feeling together with him and to make him realize that you are feeling him. By means of these actions, the role of being a supporter is displayed as well as making him well. Doing this is achieved with the step of passing from logic to emotion. However, this transition cannot be achieved suddenly. In order to make the transition from logic to emotion, one must first be aware. Accepting the habit of acting with existing logic is the first and most important step in this process. The moment you see your spouse sad, you say, “He started out of nowhere, what is there to be upset? He’s looking for a place to be sad, He has everything but still can’t be happy. ” Instead of thinking, it is necessary to worry about him and make an effort to understand his feelings. Looking at events with straightforward logic makes it impossible to understand women. Because “Men go to the point” Refute my opinion! ”As she approached,“ Understand me! ”She calls out… However, this transition cannot be achieved suddenly. In order to make the transition from logic to emotion, one must first be aware. Accepting the habit of acting with the existing logic is the first and most important step in this process. The moment you see your spouse sad, you say, “He started out of nowhere, what is there to be upset? He’s looking for a place to worry, He has everything but still can’t be happy. ” Instead of thinking, it is necessary to worry about him and make an effort to understand his feelings. Looking at events with straightforward logic makes it impossible to understand women. Because ‘Men go’ ‘Refute my opinion! ”As she approached,“ Understand me! ”She calls out… However, this transition cannot be achieved suddenly. In order to make the transition from logic to emotion, one must first be aware. Accepting the habit of acting with existing logic is the first and most important step in this process. The moment you see your spouse sad, you say, “He started out of nowhere, what is there to be upset? He’s looking for a place to worry, He has everything but still can’t be happy. ” Instead of thinking, it is necessary to worry about him and make an effort to understand his feelings. Looking at events with plain logic makes it impossible to understand women. Because “Men go to the point” Refute my opinion! ”As she approached,“ Understand me! ”She calls out… The moment you see your spouse sad, you say, “He started out of nowhere, what is there to be upset? He’s looking for a place to worry, He has everything but still can’t be happy. ” Instead of thinking, it is necessary to worry about him and make an effort to understand his feelings. Looking at events with plain logic makes it impossible to understand women. Because ‘Men go’ ‘Refute my opinion! ”As she approached,“ Understand me! ”She calls out… The moment you see your spouse sad, you say, “He started out of nowhere, what is there to be upset? He’s looking for a place to worry, He has everything but still can’t be happy. ” Instead of thinking, it is necessary to worry about him and make an effort to understand his feelings. Looking at events with straightforward logic makes it impossible to understand women. Because “Men go to the point” Refute my opinion! ”As she approached,“ Understand me! ”She calls out…

To understand women it is necessary to listen. Most women are careful and respectful of listening. They try to understand by listening. They expect them to show this kindness to them as well. When the woman understands that she is not listening by evaluating this expectation in a broad frame, they evaluate it as a holistic rather than a cross-section. However, some of the men never listen when their wives speak. In situations where they are not rested, women can easily notice and evaluate themselves as being ignored and worthless. Individuals may be confronted with the occurrence of severe problems between relationships, the risk of separation or even divorce as a result of the woman’s evaluations and the man’s trivialization. Some men pay attention to what they think is important while listening to women, They ignore other expressions that they find unimportant. This approach is more balanced than not listening at all. However, in this approach, realizing that the woman is not listening does not change the results. The woman again feels insignificant and worthless. As one can predict how and in which behaviors the husband might feel, it is appropriate to avoid selfishness and exhibit behaviors that can make everyone feel good within the framework of empathy. Thus, it can establish healthy and permanent bonds. It is appropriate to avoid selfishness and exhibit behaviors that can make everyone feel good within the framework of empathy. Thus, it can establish healthy and permanent bonds. It is appropriate to avoid selfishness and exhibit behaviors within the framework of empathy that can make everyone feel good. Thus, it can establish healthy and permanent bonds.

Because women need to feel a strong and unbearable bond in their relationships with their partners. Although bonding is an important need for male psychology, some men who are not fully aware of this, establish a life they live by keeping their egos in the foreground, which they try to satisfy by isolating their wives and children. They try to feel good even though they are aware of their mistakes by blaming their spouse and children as the justification of their life. In their accusations, they include complaints such as “I couldn’t keep up with what I did, I couldn’t make them happy” that feel like they are worthless. In connection with their feeling of worthlessness, they feel the need to include a second woman that they believe can value in their lives as well as being married to them. As a result, they tend to marry while married or to have relationships with more than one woman while married. These behaviors are behaviors that break the bonds, as well as the situations that keep them away from the spouse and devalue the family concept. Instead of turning to other women while married, the man should try to heal the diseased condition by analyzing the issues that devalue himself. This effort completely eliminates the problems over time and leads to the bonding of the spouses. It allows you to focus on the spouse and children over time. Focus contributes deeply to the development of marital relationships. Instead of turning to other women while married, the man should try to heal the diseased condition by analyzing the issues that devalue himself. This effort completely eliminates the problems over time and leads to the bonding of the spouses. It allows you to focus on the spouse and children over time. Focus contributes deeply to the development of marital relationships. Instead of turning to other women while married, the man should try to heal the diseased condition by analyzing the issues that devalue himself. This effort completely eliminates the problems over time and leads to the bonding of the spouses. It allows you to focus on the spouse and children over time. Focus contributes deeply to the development of marital relationships.

As a result, female psychology is not incomprehensible. However, women can be incomprehensible when the positive behaviors discussed above are ignored and exposed to negative situations. It is perfectly normal for women exposed to negative situations to be incomprehensible, and it is the psychological phenomena that society brings to them who are responsible for their incomprehensibility. Women must be understandable with empathy in order to establish meaningful relationships based on trust and deep emotional bonds in society. Thus, by building a healthy society with healthy emotions, we can achieve sufficiently equal values ​​in the phenomenon of gender.

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